I was following why the BFV reliearization works, so I supposed 2 ciphertexts $b_1$ and $b_2$ and did the product:
$$b_1 = a_1s+e_1+\Delta m_1$$
$$b_1b_2 = (a_1s+e_1+\Delta m_1)(a_2s+e_2+\Delta m_2) = \\ a_1a_2s^2 + a_1se_2 + a_1s\Delta m_2 + e_1 a_2s +e_1e_2 + e_1\Delta m_2 + \\ \Delta m_1 a_2s + \Delta m_1 e_2 + \Delta ^2 m_1 m_2$$
We want to isolate $\Delta m_1 m_2$ in a way that we have $as + e + \Delta m_1 m_2$ so we can decrypt it.
$$\Delta^2 m_1m_2 + \Delta m_1a_2s + a_1s\Delta m_2+ e_0 + a_1a_2s^2 = \\\Delta ^2 m_1m_2 + \Delta s(m_1a_2 + a_1m_2) + e_0 + a_1a_2s^2$$
Let's imagine the relinearization key as
$$b_3 = a_3s + e_3 + s^2\implies a_1a_2b_3 = a_1a_2a_3s + a_1a_2e_3 + a_1a_2s^2$$
and we scaled it by $a_1a_2$ so we can subtract and remove the $s^2$ term from out $b_1b_2$ product:
$$b_1b_2- a_1a_2b_3 = \\ \Delta ^2 m_1m_2 + \Delta s(m_1a_2 + a_1m_2) + e_0 + \\a_1a_2s^2 - (a_1a_2a_3s + a_1a_2e_3 + a_1a_2s^2)$$
$$b_1b_2- a_1a_2b_3 = \Delta^2 m_1m_2 +\Delta s (m_1a_2 + a_1m_2) + e_0 -\\ a_1a_2a_3s + e_4$$
$$b_1b_2- a_1a_2b_3 = \\
\Delta^2 m_1m_2 +s (\Delta (m_1a_2 + a_1m_2 - a_1a_2a_3)) + e_5$$
The desire is to divide by $\Delta$ here but remember that $(x \mbox{ mod q })/y \neq x/y \mbox{ mod q}$ so we can't actually do:
$$round\left(\frac{b_1b_2- a_1a_2b_3 }{\Delta}\right) = \\ round(\Delta m_1m_2 +s (m_1a_2 + a_1m_2 - a_1a_2a_3) + e_6)$$
So how do I get the ciphertext to be in the form $as + e + \Delta m_1m_2$?