Multiple unnecessary joins when creating an andConditionGroup()

I have a large array of names and surnames, I need to know which of these differ from the current ones in the database.

For example:

    $largeList = largeList();
    $storage = $this->entityTypeManager->getStorage("mi_entity");
    $query = $storage->getQuery();

    foreach ($largeList as $item) {
      $andGroup = $query->andConditionGroup();
      $andGroup
        ->condition('name', $item->getName(), "<>")
        ->condition('surname', $item->getSurname(), "<>");
      $query->condition($andGroup);
    }

    $ids = $query->execute();

The idea is to compare on the first and last names, for example the part of the sql condition should look something similar to this:

SELECT
   "base_table"."id" AS "id",
   "base_table"."id" AS "base_table_id" 
FROM
   "entity_table" "base_table" 
   INNER JOIN
      "entity_table" "entity_table" 
      ON "entity_table"."id" = "base_table"."id"
WHERE
 (("entity_table"."name" NOT LIKE 'NAME 1' ESCAPE '\\') and ("entity_table"."surname" NOT LIKE 'LAST NAME 1' ESCAPE '\\')) AND 
 (("entity_table"."name" NOT LIKE 'NAME 2' ESCAPE '\\') and ("entity_table"."surname" NOT LIKE 'LAST NAME 2' ESCAPE '\\')) AND ......

However, the code above as an example, generates an additional join for each item in the array like this:

SELECT
   "base_table"."id" AS "id",
   "base_table"."id" AS "base_table_id" 
FROM
   "entity_table" "base_table" 
   INNER JOIN
      "entity_table" "entity_table" 
      ON "entity_table"."id" = "base_table"."id" 
   INNER JOIN
      "entity_table" "entity_table_2" 
      ON "entity_table_2"."id" = "base_table"."id" 
   INNER JOIN
      "entity_table" "entity_table_3" 
      ON "entity_table_3"."id" = "base_table"."id" 
   INNER JOIN
      "entity_table" "entity_table_4" 
      ON "entity_table_4"."id" = "base_table"."id" 

      WHERE
   (("entity_table"."name" NOT LIKE 'NAME 1' ESCAPE '\\') and ("entity_table"."surname" NOT LIKE 'LAST NAME 1' ESCAPE '\\')) AND 
   (("entity_table_2"."name" NOT LIKE 'NAME 2' ESCAPE '\\') and ("entity_table_2"."surname" NOT LIKE 'LAST NAME 2' ESCAPE '\\')) AND 
   (("entity_table_3"."name" NOT LIKE 'NAME 3' ESCAPE '\\') and ("entity_table_3"."surname" NOT LIKE 'LAST NAME 3' ESCAPE '\\')) AND 
   (("entity_table_4"."name" NOT LIKE 'NAME 4' ESCAPE '\\') and ("entity_table_4"."surname" NOT LIKE 'LAST NAME 4' ESCAPE '\\'))

In this excerpt from the query, I only show 4 conditions that generate 4 joins, but if I have 500, it generates 500 joins. What would be the correct way to write the condition to avoid these unnecessary joins ?