When I upload something from a Windows server (qemu kvm) to a new Linux server (bare metal) in the same network the speed is very slow (about 1/100 of what should be possible for the 1GBit/s uplink). Uploads to all other machines (including other Linux servers) in the network work at full speed. And as soon as I start such an upload to another machine while an upload to the problematic Linux server is still running, both uploads get fast (so the before slow upload increases to about 50% of the speed of the uplink while the other starts and stays at that as well). Once the 'other upload' finishes the former upload to the new problematic server drops to its very slow speed.
This seems to be the case for all traffic (SSH, HTTP, SMB) while no other machine in the network has the problem. So every other machine in the network uploads to the new server without issues at full speed. It even seems that the Linux bare metal host also has no issues.
Between both servers are two Netgear 1/10GBit/s switches but no VLANs or any other special configuration. I tried some typical KVM host/guest workarounds (tx/rx offload, lso, different virtual adapter, ...) but without any change at all. Looking at tcpdumps on source, target and host I also don't see anything which seems off. So no package loss or other problems I could identify (though I'm no expert here).
So now before anything else and since I've never seen something like that, my main question is at what kind of problem am I even looking here?