Kubuntu is a flavor of Ubuntu, thus comes with three years of supported life as stated in all release notes & annoucements; eg.
"Maintenance updates will be provided for 5 years for Ubuntu Desktop,Ubuntu Server, Ubuntu Cloud, and Ubuntu Core. All the remaining flavours will be supported for 3 years. Additional security support is available with ESM (Extended Security Maintenance)"
from https://fridge.ubuntu.com/2022/09/01/ubuntu-20-04-5-lts-released/ so the number of days matches Kubuntu 20.04 LTS, which matches the Kubuntu 20.04 LTS release notes too
I booted up one of the Lubuntu 20.04 LTS systems I have, let it sit idle for some time & explored the system trying to trigger upgrade notices (it only reported updates were available); but none mentioned the 2023-April EOL date as per your post. I applied all upgrades, rebooted & tried again, still no message with it left ~15 minutes some of which had my explore the system trying to trigger messages (this time I only got messages saying no updates were available as expected). However I did not get any release-upgrade offers. or messages triggered by the Ubuntu-release-upgrade tool which maybe what causes you to see what you posted. If it's the release-upgrade tool that causes the message, I didn't make that offer upgrade on this system.
I've heard mention of what you describe a number of times before, but I've never seen it on systems I use. For the record; the Lubuntu box I tested also has xubuntu-desktop
installed on it too (ie. multi-desktop install) so it wasn't a clean system; but I suspect both Xubuntu & Lubuntu act the same in this regard.
(Lubuntu uses the LXQt desktop, thus has Qt5 & a number of Kubuntu components included in the install, but there are still many differences with what you as a Kubuntu user are using compared to my testing with a Lubuntu install; my concentration with Lubuntu is because that's one team I'm heavily involved with)